My heart is heavy for the haughery's and allen's tonight... i followed emily's updates all day long, and could hardly contain the tears that welled up in my eyes when i read of the final decision. my throat hurt, and eyes burned b/c i had to maintain a professional demeanor...i was working at NORLANCO ultrasound in etown today.

oh sometimes i wish i knew what to do. my god give us all grace to know how to care for these families, how to relate to them. my approach is simply to be sincere....

i would have a major temptation to read condolances with remorse- look at these people who are sorry, but still able to move on with their "normal" lives... how dare they try to comfort me...

but god is so gracious and sent his only son to die for sins like one i just described...